Can one brain state explain why we stop listening, talking, or caring about others-why we raise our voices, blame, hate, unfriend, post nasty remarks, want others to lose, feel alienated, see others as against us, fall out of love, divorce, abuse, or despise a politician, race, or religious group? Enemy Mode produces relational blindness. It keeps us from seeing people as fellow humans with value. The consequences are painful and costly. Jim and Ray look to history, faith, and real-life stories for help. This book is for all who hope our true selves will live relationally, and recover the best in others. Book jacket.