"Is this too much?" a writer asked of a piece she was sharing in a Zoom writing group. "You can never be too much" popped up in the chat from another participant before even hearing the piece. And then the writer read the piece. And it was a lot! There were tears and Cindy just about sobbed. This writer took up ALL the space in the call with her words. And, it was definitely, certainly NOT too much. It was just right. It was a secret that met each person in the group right where they were and all of us were in different places.This book is about the secret to living big. To being the best you there is, to questions instead of answers, to letting go of labels, and putting up boundaries and living like an artist. It's the secret to disease and fear. It's A LOT. And it, like you, is not too much.