By the time Will Schwalbe was a junior at college, he had already met everyone he cared to know: the theater people, writers, and various other quirky characters, including the few students who shared his own major, Latin and Greek. An out gay man, he also knew exactly who he wanted to avoid: the jocks. The jocks seemed to be another species entirely, one Will might encounter only at his own peril. All this changed dramatically when Will collided with Chris Maxey. Maxey was physically imposing, loud, and a star wrestler who was determined to become a Navy Seal (where he would later serve for six years). Thanks to the strangely liberating circumstances of a secret society at Yale, the two forged a bond that would become a mainstay of each other's lives as they repeatedly lost and found each other and themselves in the years after graduation. From New Haven to Hong Kong to a remarkable school on an island in the Bahamas-through marriages and a divorce, triumphs, and devastating losses-We Should Not Be Friends tracks an extraordinary friendship over decades of challenge and change. Schwalbe's marvelous new work is, at its heart, a joyful testament to the miracle of human connection-and how if we can just get past our preconceptions, we may find some of our greatest friends.