The menopause can challenge even the most stable, loving and supportive relationships: here’s how to make sure yours can survive – and thrive.

As a woman, are you:

• In a relationship?


• Know you are – or think you may be – menopausal?


• Fearful of the possible impact of the menopause on your relationship – and don’t know what to do?


• Expecting (or hoping) your partner will support you through the menopause?

As a man, are you:

• In a relationship?


• Know – or think your partner may be – menopausal?


• Fearful of the possible impact of the menopause on your relationship – and don’t know what to do?


• Wanting to know how you can support your partner manage her menopause?

Then this book is for you. And for you both.

Written by leading gender equity and menopause coach Kate Usher and her husband, Neil, a highly experienced workplace and change leader, this unique book looks at the menopause from a female and male perspective.

In a refreshing, candid, positive and accessible guide drawn from their personal experience in learning about and managing Kate’s traumatic menopause, it helps couples to successfully manage the experience together and emerge stronger.

‘A good source of information and practical advice’ Dr Shahanaz Begum, NHS and Private GP specialising in women’s health, family planning and child health