Living in a love-hate relationship-with your spouse, kids, parents, friends, co-workers, and even God-can leave you feeling confused and furious. But the practical strategies presented in this book will help you overcome your most agonizing relational predicaments. Drawing on a wealth of experience as therapists and as best-selling authors, David Stoop and Stephen Arterburn provide you with:

• Insightful analysis of the "problem behind the problem behind the problem" in love-hate relationships


• Hands-on questionnaires and exercises to help you sort out your mixed-up feelings


• Real-life case studies that show how you can protect yourself from abuse without cutting yourself off from people you care about


• Professional advice to help you work through your bitterness and disappointment and manage the healing act of forgiveness