Love in its many facets is the most essential and fundamental experience in our lives. Yet, does anyone of us really understand the forces of attraction that so often cause the greatest delight and deepest despair? How do we learn to love ourselves? How does love develop over time?

Written from an autobiographical perspective, the author and psychologist Martin Luthke shares his story and insights in a candid and accessible style. He explores the inner workings of lust and desire ● self-love and its challenges ● the bisexual dilemma and cultural overlays ● gender and freedom ● how we best learn to love self and others ● the addictive brain ● and love in the life-cycle. Finally, Martin shares about loving one's twin-flame ● karmic influences of our choices ● and love beyond the personal dimension.