Are you beat from trying to get a man to commit to you? Does it feel like you've looked under every rock for the man that wants you for the rest of his life? Are you tired of being "in a relationship" and fear that your relationship will never make it to the next "step"?

If you answered "YES!" to any of these questions, you've come to the right place! With years of relationship expertise under the belt, it's easy to say that one of the biggest obstacles women come across in relationships is "Get Him to Commit" obstacle.

Solutions to commitment issues are never straightforward or simple. Men are notorious for "commitment phobia" and it seems to be an increasing trend in today's society for various reasons.

First of all, don't ever let your man, or anyone else for that matter, convince you that a healthy, relationship in which two people are "content", is acceptable you're your "forever". If you are a woman who believes in marriage (which is VERY normal), stand strong in your beliefs.

Men with commitment issues, and/or fears of committing to one person for the rest of their life, will often make comments like the following:

• "Why do why need to get married honey? Isn't our relationship perfect right now?"


• "If it's not broken, don't fix it!"


• "Look at our friends… as soon as they got married – their relationship went downhil!"

If you're trying to get your man to commit, it's likely you've heard statements like these from him. Don't let this type of response derail you from your goal. These statements form "walls" that men try to hide behind. Remind yourself that this is a defensive mechanism that men with fears of commitment use.

Prevent yourself from thinking, "Forget it, I'll never get him to commit!" These types of thoughts are toxic and will only make it harder for you to get him to commit….

Instead of thinking you'll never get him to commit, you need to start learning proven strategies that encourage men to commit! Yes, relationship experts have dealt with this problem for decades and have compiled different strategies that can be implemented to off set this frustrating relationship obstacle!