This book is a basic guide to the concepts of human babies' brain development, consciousness, the unconscious, memory and relationships. The book introduces these topics in simple, jargon-free terms and gives a taster of a future volume on what happens in coaching and psychotherapy and how these things work. This book is intended for people who struggle with psychobabble and are interested in what makes them and others tick and what determines the way we relate to others. This is the third edition of the book with various edits and clarifications.