(Un)kind

(Un)kind

by Victoria Smith
Publication Date: 06/02/2025

Share This eBook:

  $16.99

A brilliantly witty and insightful analysis of how kindness culture is used against women.


Using the #JustBeKind trend of the 2020s as a starting point, (Un)kind explores how traditional beliefs about women's 'kind' nature have been repackaged for an age that remains dependent - socially, politically, economically - on female self-sacrifice while finding the concept outdated and essentialist.


Looking at the various guises under which kindness culture is sold to women and girls - from play to self-help, social justice activism to empowerment - it argues that the pressure on women and girls has not decreased, but instead been incorporated into the 'work' of feminism. (Un)kind also proposes that this phenomenon ultimately distorts relations between humans, harming not just those coerced into performing 'kindness work' but the supposed recipients of their services. Kindness culture supports the backlash against feminism while claiming to represent feminism's - and women's - true nature. It is, at heart, unkind.


Praise for Hags


**'The greatest joy of Hags is its lively erudition . . . eloquent, clever and devastating' The Times


'A book that could not be more necessary' Observer


'Brilliantly witty, engaging and insightful' Scotsman**

ISBN:
9780349127125
9780349127125
Category:
Feminism & feminist theory
Publication Date:
06-02-2025
Language:
English
Publisher:
Little, Brown Book Group
Victoria Smith

Victoria Smith is a regular contributor to the Critic, writing on women's issues, parenting and mental health. Her work has also appeared in the New Statesman, the Independent and Unherd.

Her newsletter, The OK Karen, looks at midlife women's experiences of feminism, and she tweets @glosswitch. She holds a PhD in German literature, with a particular interest in Romanticism and dark fairy tales. She lives in Cheltenham with her family.

Available for download after 06/02/2025

Reviews

Be the first to review (Un)kind.