The unpredictable mind is tied to the uncontrollable mind,which afflicts us with guilt,shame,hostility and depression. Those afflictions give us enough reason why we can confront the subject-object split with a shrug of 'SO' what. Being whole matters more than anything else. Accepting the divided self will make us lose our connection to wholeness.

Wholeness is everything. It can't be lost or rejected. To choose wholeness I alike saying'I choose not to exist yesterday, but I have decided to exit today.