There are many fine books dealing with how to handle grief in the death of someone we love. Here, I wanted to go a step further and discuss those questions pastors receive from their members on subjects like where is my loved one right now, will we know each other in heaven, how we can be happy in heaven if someone we love is not there, etc. As a Christian pastor for sixty-two years, I have wrestled with how to answer such questions, always seeking to be faithful to the teachings of the Bible